The Law Office of Lisa A. Vance, P.C.

The Path to Your Piece of Mind
Divorce and Family Law Matters

We are now accepting clients statewide in Texas.


As the situation with COVID-19 continues to develop and evolve, the safety, health and well-being of our clients and our team is extremely important to us. We are watching for the guidance of the Centers for Disease Control and international medical experts to learn how we can best manage our facility and our clients.

We would like to reassure you that The Law Office of Lisa A. Vance, P.C. will continue to be available to provide services to all of our clients.

Our lawyers and paralegals are working in the office and electronically, although most of us are working from home. Below is a list of FAQs regarding our response and commitment to you during COVID-19.

Can I even have a consultation with my lawyer remotely?

Yes, The Office of Lisa A. Vance, P.C. has a comprehensive remote working capability and all of our lawyers and paralegals are equipped to work securely from home.

Will my lawyer be available to answer questions and work on my case?

Yes, your legal matters will continue to receive our attention. You can email, call, or videoconference with your lawyer during this time.

We also have multiple videoconferencing options; please contact your attorney for the platform that works best for you

How are court hearings and appointments affected?

Court in Bexar County are now conducted by Zoom Please see our blog article Court via Zoom: It’s Actually, Really Court (and Here’s How It Works)

Can I consult with a lawyer about a new family law or divorce matter?

Yes, we have office staff working in house and remotely to ensure continuity in our business. For information about a family law or divorce matter, please call our office or complete the Request a Consultation Form.

Your family law matters remain our top concern and we are not going to permit this pandemic to take priority over your needs. We will remain confident, alert and prepared.

We wish you and your family well as we work through this difficult situation together.

With warm regards,
Lisa A Vance



Family Law
Click For More

Rest of Life
Click For More

Helping Clients to Make Ethical Decisions

| Jun 23, 2017 | Divorce, Ethics In Divorce |

Working in family law means that a number of the cases we try involve children. In family law, the inevitability is that decisions are made based on what’s in the best interest of the child. If a case is litigated, the judge will use that as a measuring stick. If it’s negotiated, all of us at the Law Office of Lisa Vance are mindful of what’s best for the children, not just at the time of the divorce but in the future.

So, in trying to help clients make ethical decisions, the first step is to help parents keep perspective on what’s really important. Ultimately, protecting and taking care of children is the most important outcome of a divorce that involves children. That obviously involves decisions about parenting time, but it also extends to how assets and debts and divided.


Emotions can get in the way of this. When a person feels wronged in divorce, that person might want to “win,” no matter what the costs or the implications. This can result in that person having some unrealistic expectations about sole custody or a disproportionate division of the marital estate. As an attorney who sees the importance in ethics, and in helping clients make the best decisions for themselves and their children, I let someone know if a demand is unrealistic and–if the case is going to litigation–is unlikely to be granted by the judge.


It can be particularly challenging if a case involves parents of a child who weren’t married or even romantically involved. I’ve worked on cases in which two people created a child, who don’t have any sort of emotional connection, yet have to settle custody and child support matters for 18 years. There’s really no basis for them to interact other than conflict, and yet they’ve brought a child into the world, and need to do the right thing in looking after that child’s well-being.


Even if there are no children in a divorce, there are still ethical choices the divorcing couple can and should make. This includes honoring and understanding the Texas Constitution and how it regards community and separate property. Couples without children won’t have to interact if they choose not to after the divorce, of course. But if one or both parties figures the divorce is a last chance to “get even,” or are otherwise clouded by strong emotions, it can be much more difficult for the parties and their lawyers maintain a solution-oriented divorce.

That is, of course, ultimately part of helping clients do the right thing–talking about what’s reasonable vs. what’s not, thinking about what’s best for all involved, and pursuing that in an ethical and principled way. If that’s important to you (and, perhaps more importantly, your children) as you start your search for a family lawyer, you should talk to us about your case and how best to proceed. 

Request A Consultation



FindLaw Network